Monday, August 24, 2009

Hate Love

So today I was looking some stuff up on the Internet and I came across this,

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”
I kinda fell in love with this quote. No I have not thought I've been in love recently, not even close but this is the exact way I feel about relationships in general whether you love the person or not. And in the end it all comes down to you opening yourself up becoming vulnerable then getting disappointed. And the most dreaded words in any language, "Maybe we should just be friends", "I'm just not feeling it", "It's not you, it's me", etc etc. Yep that's right. Just thought I would share with all of you.